When we started our Local Groups initiative at CTI UK in Spring 2008, our initiative was simply to encourage coaches inspired to increase the face-to-face contact they had with each other by taking their own initiative in setting up local Co-active coaching support groups.
For a profession that is increasingly becoming virtualized, we sensed that this would help coaches either bi-weekly, monthly or quarterly, to renew their passion for Co-active coaching in a way they might not have experienced since training as a coach.
From this small seed, the response has been far greater than we could have ever imagined.
As Kate Jones, who runs the North West Local Group reflects: "It feels fantastic! There is a lot of fondness in the group; huge amounts of creativity, great minds, great questions, (GREAT COACHES including those who have 'only' done Fundamentals), real honesty and transparency, vulnerability from time to time, sanity and insanity checks...there is room for everything! Co-activity is alive and well and thriving in the North West."
Isabel Van der Ven, of the Beautiful South Coaches Network adds: "It was the extra dimension you get when being face-to-face, as most of us spend most time behind the computer and on the phone. On our first day, we had a quiz, speed coaching (!), had FUN, worked on building/expanding your business and had a 'swap-shop' to connect people helping each other on any topic related to coaching."
Set your purpose clearly
Over the last 15 months, some 20 people have stepped forward as local coordinators, covering nearly every area of the UK. Their experience -- trials, successes and errors -- has provided immense learning which we hope will make the way a little easier for those who follow in their footsteps.
What we have noticed in talking to the different coordinators is that those who have clearly articulated their purpose have found it much easier to engage others.
Judy Rich of the NW London Group says that their group is "a place to share our uniqueness as coaches and be recognised for it."
This may be simply stating the obvious, and yet, as many of us know, it's all too easy to forget. Indeed, a clearly defined purpose might be the difference between creating a dynamic support group in which coaches can grow and learn and simply creating a space for "tea and chat" (although that too is important!)
Form and structure
While some groups found their feet almost from day one, others have started and then merged with others, some started and then closed, while others are still waiting for sufficient numbers to come forth.
Judy Rich of the North West London Coaching group says that the smaller size of their group (12, of which any 6-8 regularly meet) means they can meet in each other's houses and retain a level of intimacy and committment.
But, as Jude Jennison of the Midlands Co-active Community Group says, sometimes you need to be willing to experiment until you find the right format that will allow your group to gel: "The Midlands community tried to get together one evening, but for whatever reason never succeeded to meet. So in the true spirit of co-activity, we tried a different tack -- a day out in the Malvern Hills. With packed lunches, a dog and a dose of sunshine, a great day was had by all. It's amazing how fresh air and a change in perspective make a difference to how we view things."
Commitment
While getting the numbers and format right is important, it seems patience is a key ingredient in the creation of lasting local community.
As Kate Jones adds: "Do encourage others not to give up hope. There were a couple of meetings when there were only three of us, and yet the energy still held. It takes time for the system that is the community to develop. It takes holding on to your vision big time, commitment, time, persistence, patience, tenacity and more time!"
Sometimes, this can also mean being willing to open up the ownership of the group to the members themselves. For example, a number of coordinators have reported that while initial enthusiasm was good, the group only really began to grow when the group as a whole became accountable and responsible for itself, and that meant sharing the financial burden of administrating it too.
Time and time again, we hear at CTI from course participants how refreshing it is to find themselves amongst such a diverse group of like-minded people, and, moreover, have a model in Co-active Coaching through which they can form authentic and lasting relationships with each other. It's what Co-activity is all about -- being together in a new, more open way. It's our hope that the Local Groups initiative will continue to keep this spirit alive.
We will be e-mailing a local groups update to you during July. In the meantime, click here for a full listing of coordinators and contact details.
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